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Long Island Divorce Lawyer

Expert Guidance for Those Getting Divorced in Nassau County

Making the decision to file for divorce is difficult. Following through can be even more complex and emotionally exhausting, particularly if you have children. That is why you need a divorce lawyer in Long Island who can handle your divorce case with compassion as well as efficiency.

At Friedman & Friedman, our family lawyers understand what you are going through, and want to be there to help guide and support you through the entire divorce process. We have helped many individuals going through this life-changing time and understand the importance of giving each case the unique attention it requires.

Sari M. Friedman is dedicated to guiding individuals and families through the divorce process in such a way as to cause the least amount of turmoil and emotional trauma – all while protecting the interests and future of her clients. Contact us to schedule an initial consultation and to speak to our family law attorneys about your divorce. Call (516) 688-0088 today!

Why Choose Our Long Island Divorce Attorneys to Represent You?

As a mother of two with over 40 years of legal experience and a legal practice devoted exclusively to matrimonial and family law, Attorney Sari Friedman has an exceptional understanding of New York divorces and all of the issues a divorce involves. This includes matters such as:

Understanding the complexities of divorce law in New York is critical. At Friedman & Friedman, we bring a deep understanding of the intricate legal landscape to ensure you are informed every step of the way. Our goal is to tailor our approach to each unique case, taking into account the specific circumstances you are facing.

Attorney Friedman and her team help clients in Long Island, New York City, and across New York State. No matter where you are in the process of dissolving your marriage, get a caring and capable advocate on your side.

Contact us online or at (516) 688-0088 to start the process of filing for divorce in Long Island.

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Filing for Divorce in Nassau County

As of 2010, you no longer need grounds for divorce in New York. Rather, New York is what is referred to as a “no-fault” divorce state, meaning that you can file for divorce simply based upon “irreconcilable differences.” Many people still file for divorce based on matters that used to be required grounds for divorce, however.

We encourage our clients to consider the implications of each available ground for divorce before proceeding. While some may seek a no-fault divorce due to its simplicity, others might find grounds such as cruelty or abandonment more suitable, depending on their circumstances. With our help, you can explore these options and choose the direction that aligns best with your personal situation and legal objectives. Understanding these grounds and their potential impact can significantly influence the outcome of the divorce proceedings.

In New York, "irreconcilable differences" can mean almost anything, including:

  • Adultery
  • Abandonment
  • Cruel and inhuman treatment (abuse)
  • Legal separation
  • Imprisonment

Once you have decided that divorce is best for you, the next step is to fill out the appropriate forms. It is vital to have the guidance of a divorce attorney when completing these forms, since these documents will directly affect any decisions for property division, child support, alimony, custody, etc. You will then file these forms with the clerk at the Westchester County Court.

Is a Lawyer Required for Divorce in Long Island, NY?

While no law specifically states that a divorce in New York requires legal representation, there are many advantages to retaining a divorce attorney in Long Island. Our divorce lawyers on Long Island understand that divorce is tough both emotionally and psychologically.

We provide you with the following benefits when our services are retained:

  • Thorough understanding of family law - we have decades of trial experience and understand the intricacies involved with complex divorce matters.
  • Reduced risk of human error: because a divorce can be exhausting, we provide a sense of “level-headedness” if emotions impede your judgment. We also tend to the documents and court papers you are responsible for completing. These can add up and cause confusion. Along the way, we will help educate you and answer any questions you may have regarding these legal documents.

Alternatives: More often than not, there are multiple ways to conclude your divorce. These can be achieved amicably and through proper negotiation. While our Long Island divorce lawyers have no issue taking your case to litigation, it’s always in your best interests to settle outside of court. We have the experience necessary to provide you with a variety of pathways which we include when preparing your case.

Realistic expectations: We help keep your focus on what issues are worth pursuing. In the heat of a divorce, it’s not uncommon for spouses to “go for it all.” However, this can backfire badly, which is why we tailor a plan specific to you and prioritize what is reasonable and attainable.

In addition to these benefits, working with a seasoned lawyer can help streamline the negotiation process, identifying the key points that are integral to your case while maintaining the dignity and respect between parties. We emphasize transparency and open communication, ensuring that you are aware of your rights and the potential outcomes throughout the proceedings. Our legal counsel is dedicated to minimizing conflict and achieving the most favorable settlement for all involved.

Understanding Child Support & Custody in Long Island

Child support and custody arrangements are integral parts of divorce proceedings that can impact a child's well-being and family dynamics. In Long Island, family courts prioritize the child's best interests when deciding custody. This may involve evaluating each parent's living situation, the child's needs, and the parent's ability to provide a stable environment. Our approach at Friedman & Friedman ensures these evaluations are thorough, advocating for arrangements that provide security and consistency for your children.

Child support calculations in New York follow specific guidelines, taking into account both parents' incomes, the number of children, and each party's financial responsibilities. While these guidelines offer a baseline, our legal team works to ensure that any support agreements are fair and reflect the child's needs, considering future expenses such as education or medical needs. We assist in negotiating and adjusting support terms as circumstances evolve, ensuring ongoing fairness and compliance with court orders.

Addressing High-Net-Worth Divorces

High-net-worth divorces require careful handling due to the complexity of asset holdings, investments, and business interests. In Long Island, where real estate and business interests can be significant, these cases demand special attention to ensure accurate asset valuation and equitable distribution. Our team at Friedman & Friedman is adept at managing such cases, offering strategic solutions that protect both your financial interests and privacy.

We collaborate with financial experts to assess the value of properties, investments, and business assets, ensuring a comprehensive understanding of your financial picture. This collaboration aids in negotiating settlements that reflect your long-term financial goals. Furthermore, our discretion and commitment to confidentiality ensure that your personal and business affairs remain private throughout the process.

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Answering Frequently Asked Questions About Divorce

Does Adultery Affect Divorce in NY?

While no longer a ground for divorce, adultery can still impact a divorce case. In regard to property division, adultery may only impact this issue if marital assets were utilized in the affair. This basically means that money or funds were given to start the affair. Common examples of this include:

  • Vacations including transportation costs
  • Dinners and other social activities
  • Costs associated with hotel/motel fees

Understanding the full scope of how adultery might influence a divorce settlement is nuanced, and each scenario differs greatly. Our attorneys are equipped to discuss how these situations can affect asset distribution, child custody, and settlement fairness. Partnering with us provides peace of mind as we navigate these complex dynamics and advocate for outcomes that prioritize your rights and family well-being.

What Is the Difference Between Separation and Divorce?

When two people agree to divorce in NY, they can immediately execute a legal separation agreement and then apply for divorce one year after the date the agreement is executed. However, issues such as custody, spousal and child support, visitation, and property division must be determined in the separation agreement. This does not preclude the parties from obtaining a divorce sooner if other existing grounds for divorce exist.

Opting for separation instead of divorce can offer couples the time and space needed to evaluate their decision without the finality of a legal divorce. This can be particularly beneficial for those wishing to maintain certain legal benefits or who may be considering reconciliation. Our guidance ensures that all significant life factors and potential implications are considered when making this decision.

What Can Be Subpoenaed in a Divorce?

Subpoenas are generally used to order someone to come to court and testify under oath. This can be requested by the plaintiff or defendant if he or she feels that the information is relevant to the issue at hand. Since divorces can be high-stakes and personal, information can sometimes be hidden. Subpoenas force that information into the open.

There are three separate types of subpoenas: personal appearance, production of documents, and a combination of the two. An example of a production of documents subpoena would be requesting that a bank provide the financial records of your divorcing spouse. Ignoring subpoenas is highly unrecommended, as those who do may face criminal charges and heavy fines.

Navigating subpoenas effectively requires a thorough understanding of what is permissible and strategic during divorce proceedings. Our lawyers provide comprehensive assistance in identifying essential documents and preparing effective strategies for their use, ensuring full legal compliance and fortifying your case through pivotal evidence gathering.

Can You Withdraw Money Before Divorce?

The short answer is yes, you may withdraw up to half of your bank account legally before filing for divorce. Please note, this must be done before the filing process begins, as any funds left in your account will be eligible for liquidation and asset division.

Navigating financial decisions before a divorce filing requires foresight and careful planning, especially when handling shared assets. Our attorneys offer detailed advice on ethically managing such decisions to protect your financial standing, avoiding potential liabilities and ensuring asset protection through informed decisions.

Who Gets the House in a Divorce?

Who gets the house after a divorce will depend on several factors, such as:

  • Whether you bought the house together after marriage or one spouse already owned the house beforehand
  • Whose name is on the mortgage
  • Whether you and your spouse have separate bank accounts but bought the house together, which would mean you used separate funds to buy marital property
  • How other property, assets, and debt will be divided during the divorce

For more information, please refer to our equitable distribution page.

The decision of who retains the family home can significantly impact post-divorce life and finances. Our attorneys work meticulously to ensure that decisions surrounding the family home are fair and reflect the financial and personal needs of our clients. Ensuring that negotiations cover every aspect of home ownership helps provide stability during what’s often a challenging transition.

Who Gets Child Custody in a Divorce?

Most people think that the mother has a better chance of winning custody in a divorce. While this may have been true in the past, it is no longer true in today’s world. The court will not grant custody to one parent solely based on their gender. Instead, the court will come to an arrangement that it believes to be in the best interest of the child. In most cases, this is an agreement in which the child gets as much time as possible with each parent. 
Learn more on our child custody page.

Child custody negotiations demand careful consideration of what is genuinely in the best interest of the child, ensuring they maintain a stable relationship with both parents. Our team focuses on creating flexible, child-centered custody agreements that account for changing needs over time, fostering an environment of cooperation and respect among all parties involved.

What Is Court-Ordered Health Insurance After Divorce?

One important issue surrounding divorce is whether health insurance will follow both sides. It is not uncommon for the dependent spouse to rely on his or her spouse’s insurance. This can apply to their children as well, if they have them.

Depending on the circumstances, there may be arrangements that you can make with our New York divorce lawyer. We can help negotiate an agreement between both sides and attempt to keep the insurance, with potential modifications.

Negotiating health insurance terms during a divorce requires a comprehensive understanding of potential impacts on familial health and financial obligations. Our attorneys facilitate discussions to retain or amend existing policies, aligning with the family’s needs and ensuring continuous coverage, reflecting our commitment to maintaining essential support systems for clients and their families.

Retain Our Award-Winning Long Island Divorce Lawyers

Founding attorney Sari M. Friedman is recognized for professional excellence not only by her clients, but also by her peers in the legal community. This is reflected in the long list of honors, awards, and accolades she has received over her three decades of practice as a matrimonial and divorce lawyer in Long Island, NY.

Attorney Sari Friedman's honors include, but are not limited to:

  • 2012 Leadership in Law Award, Long Island Business News: The Leadership in Law Award recognizes experience, dedication, hard work, skill, tenacity, and excellence, and honors individuals whose leadership in the legal profession and community has had a positive impact on Long Island.
  • 2014–2018 New York Metro Super Lawyers®: Super Lawyers® is a designation given to only 5% of attorneys in New York State.
  • 2015 Long Island’s Top Rated Lawyers, Legal Leaders: This distinction is given to those who have achieved the prestigious Martindale-Hubbell® AV Preeminent® rating.
  • 2016 Family Business Award, SmartCEO: Recognizes the legacy of Sari’s law firm, as well as her core family values and perseverance to serve generations to come.

Additionally, Sari has been recognized by Long Island Power Women in Business for her devotion to the Long Island community through her legal efforts.

Attorney Friedman has also been named to the following prestigious lists:

  • National Advocates Top 100 Lawyers in Matrimonial & Family Law
  • Who's Who Top Attorney in North America
  • Who's Who in American Law
  • 10 Best Family Law Attorneys in New York for Client Satisfaction, AIFLA

Attorney Andrea B. Friedman, a named partner of the firm, has been awarded the 2016 Millennial Award from Long Island Business News. She has also received the 2016 Stars Under 40 Award from Star Network.

Tailoring Your Case to Meet Your Unique Needs

The attorneys at Friedman & Friedman PLLC are dedicated to providing families with experienced, professional, and personalized legal representation through every step of the New York divorce process. Our team treats each client with the utmost importance and strives to obtain results through skilled legal counsel at an affordable cost.

Contact us today to consult a recognized and trusted family lawyer regarding divorce in Long Island, NY. Call (516) 688-0088!

Our firm adopts a client-first approach, addressing your unique needs with tailored strategies. Whether the focus is on high-net-worth divorces, child custody disputes, or amicable separations, we ensure that each case receives the focused attention it merits.

Frequently Asked Questions

How Can I Protect My Assets in a Divorce?

Protecting your assets during a divorce involves several critical steps, including careful documentation and legal strategies. It is important to keep a clear record of assets acquired before and during the marriage. Separating personal and marital assets early on can simplify proceedings.

Utilizing legal tools such as prenuptial and postnuptial agreements can provide a predefined structure for how assets are divided. If these agreements were not established, our team can help secure assets through financial strategies and investigation into potential hidden assets.

Practical measures like maintaining separate bank accounts and securing copies of financial documents can also be beneficial. At Friedman & Friedman, our goal is to ensure every step respects your financial integrity while supporting a fair settlement.

What Happens if My Spouse Refuses to Cooperate?

If one spouse refuses to cooperate, legal recourse is available. Courts may issue orders compelling participation, including providing documents or appearing in court.

Our legal team can pursue motions to compel, temporary orders, or sanctions to prevent delays. We also promote mediation as a way to encourage resolution outside of court.

Can I Modify the Divorce Decree Later?

Post-divorce modifications may be possible when significant life changes occur, such as financial shifts or relocation. Common modifications include child custody, support, and alimony.

Our team assists in preparing petitions and ensuring proper documentation to support modification requests. We also help you stay proactive by tracking life changes and aligning future decisions with your needs.

Where to File for Divorce on Long Island

Nassau Family Court - 1200 Old Country Rd #2, Westbury, NY 11590

Queens County Family Court - 151-20 Jamaica Ave, Jamaica, NY 11432

Suffolk County Family Court - 400 Carleton Ave, Central Islip, NY 11722

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